She/Her

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Cake day: 6. Juni 2025

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  • it hasn’t been too bad for me. I got lobes pierced 2 months ago. there was some discomfort here and there. but I followed the directions I was given and kept them clean. this place uses registered nurses and was great. I just got them switched out there the other day because I was afraid to do it myself and I wanted them to look and make sure the healing was good. I have to keep wearing them all the time but now I can switch them back and forth myself if I want. I think constant ear piercing wearing for a year is what they recommended. and no hoops for a while. I bought an ear piercing pillow on Amazon. it’s like sleeping on a fluffy donut but I’m used to it now.








  • Here are the things I did before I ever bought outwardly facing feminine clothing that helped me pass immediately:

    1. Wear a cute hat
    2. Colorful reusable face masks to match with outfits (a few bucks on amazon)
    3. Cheap but a nice looking purse (20 bucks)
    4. Work on voice (Free! Plenty of videos out there to start with)
    5. Paint fingernails (about 25$ for a 3-in-1 and a color, be sure to use non-acetone remover)
    6. Be well-groomed. (gender affirming barber helps a ton! https://strandsfortrans.org/)
    7. Wearing nice undergarments is a huge boon to self image even if no one else can see them!

    As for getting clothing when you are ready, I highly recommend Thrifting. The local thrift store changed my life and building a whole wardrobe from scratch is a huge financial investment otherwise. You can get multiple outfits at a thrift store for the same price as one new garment. It’s ridiculous what stores charge for clothing.

    When you are really ready, you’ll know. Everyone’s journey is unique and it’s not a race, it’s a marathon. Go at your own pace! You can do this and you are worth it!