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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • Republicans are getting rid of all pretenses average people use to justify the function of our society. Non-profits shouldn’t exist and the real government should be addressing all the problems they have historically been leaving to burnt out newly grads begging for money from corporate funders, mitigating the problem slightly, and showing up for corporate media campaigns about how happy the few people they helped are about it. We used to pretend this was a solution and now the pretend solution is being taken away.


  • After having chronic insomnia from my literal earliest memories, I can assure you that you already know all the “tricks” if you’ve done any research at all. There are no real tricks for chronic insomnia, only lifestyle changes which help over the long term. I so desperately wish it wasn’t the case, but you need good physical and mental health to have good sleep. Sleep apnea can be fixed pretty quickly if that’s the problem, otherwise therapy, exercise, and sunshine for a year or two is your best bet.






  • Go somewhere private and explain to yourself out loud your objection to this girl having this doll. Don’t think about it, just talk and listen to yourself. Be honest.

    Since you’re speaking English, I assume you’re familiar with racism. When you’re raised in a racist culture you end up with racist ideas whether you would like to or not. It sounds like your reaction here made you uncomfortable. Reflecting on it rather than burying it is the right thing to do. If you identify as someone who is ok with any girl playing with any kind of doll, whatever latent belief you have causing you to feel differently can be dismantled once you know what it is.





  • The word “lazy” exists for exploiters to shame their thralls if they aren’t profiting them enough. Think about anyone who might call you lazy and their relationship to you. They are not your friends; you don’t have to serve them.

    If you’re not satisfied with how you’re living your life, that’s meaningful. The protection from loss you have gained through your job doesn’t balance against the stress of what you’re doing. There are no easy answers but something needs to change. I would suggest working on those changes before you get burned all the way out, because at that point you’ll be making changes whether you want to or not.


  • The assumption would be that unless they can explain it in a way that indicates their support of the rights of either affected group, they’re bigoted and not worth anything to anyone other than to the thought leaders they let think on their behalf and are using them to profit themselves. I’ll pity them as they are extremely pathetic and loathsome, but that’s as much as I’m willing to give them. There’s less than a percent chance that they’re simply misled and willing to have a good faith conversation about what they were taught, but short of that they’re easy to dismiss altogether in every way. This may sound harsh but I’m well past any patience I had for bigotry.