You gotta love that every comment in this thread Is people saying that no one would ever say this on Hexbear, And then every other comment is people saying it.

glad that I misunderstood your explanation as justification.

Being guillotined would be dope and you should say so!

So you’re saying respectability politics is ok when it’s from people from colonized countries. Are you saying this as an American? Asking as someone with a father who is “from the region” who doesn’t feel beholden to behaving conservatively my whole adult life to not disrespect my family.

just got the call a lil bit ago, ILA strike over. We are having a celebration dinner. 90 day extension. Woop 🙌🏽

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yeah definitely its the sentiment that matters. i love reading the pins.

I see now @LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net has posted this before. I will leave this up as i wanna seen that map turn red baby!

i love you you fully concede your point right? and then say “oh well people ive talked to say this”. like what am i supposed to say? what do you want me to say here? im too autistic for this response. im not being sarcastic im being sincere. im just too burnt out to even continue this weird neurotypical politeness game that makes no sense. you give me a personal anecdote that goes against all available evidence. im too fucking autistic i wish people just communicated in ways that made sense.

“economic conditions”. its anti factual, there is no reason to believe it whatsoever. you literally cannot pay women to have kids countries have tried. in the richest countries in the world population rates decline. places with free healthcare and child care and all the bullshit people lie and say will make people have kids. population rates go down when women have more rights and education. thats it. mad about that? awesome youre mad about women having more rights. its not “economic conditions” thats just a misogynistic idea that if you have a couple of thousand dollars more a month you would be able to live out your fantasy of being able to afford having women as property again. women wont have 2.5 kids because half of women halving 3 kids is A SHIT TON OF KIDS AND WOMEN WANT LIVES. they do not want to rip their vaginas 2-3 times. they dont want to have a kid with a man who will expect backrubs and blowjobs for doing 10% of the work they do and wear feminist dad shirts. if you dont have a society that coerces women into to having children SHOCKER they dont have children. theres no shortage of people in the world. it doesnt fucking matter what so ever that first worlders are having less kids. it literally should not be a concern for anyone who calls themself a leftist yall on this issue are indistinguishable from liberals. brown people around the world are having plenty of kids. poor people around the world are having plenty of kids. why? how can that be when “only rich people can have kids”. immigrants who move to the first world have FAR more kids. there is non population “problem” none at all. UNLESS you are mad that there are less white children, thats the only reason you as a “leftist” would be mad about first worlders having less kids. you can be mad at worse economic condition in the first world sure, but you dont need to lie and claim that “economic conditions” being BAD makes people have less kids. if youre mad about that youre JUST mad that women have rights, thats it. its the opposite of the truth, and its a hexbear mantra. “people are too poor to have kids in america” theres no reason to believe that the more money women have the LESS kids they choose to have. youre just getting amd at WOMEN CHOICES and then BLAMING THE ECONOMY like if you just had a bit more money women will stop being dumb and give you children. its reactionary, anti-materialist misogynistic, and i consider it a white supremacist dog whistle. AND ITS EVERYWHERE ON HEXBEAR. its not just this thread, this thread is the ten thousandth straw. there is a post like this EVERY TWO DAYS. i swear they are increasing, i got into it with someone saying that people in norway weren’t having kids because of “economic issues” and that a 200 dollar a month difference would make people choose to have more kids. its THE MOST reactionary thing about this entire site and it actually makes me consider leaving almost regularly lately. the hitler detector have being going off like crazy.

Hexbears when men are less able to coerce people into sex and reproductive labor. i swear 90% of leftist men would be down for gilead id they got free healthcare and shit.

There’s no reason to believe this. You literally cannot pay people to have kids. theres no evidence that this would work on a large scale. when women have more education and freedom they choose to have less kids its that simple. most afab people simply dont want to be broodmares pumping out 2.5 kids.

nah.

Huh ok. Sorry I was confused. I thought you were saying in a perfect world no one would be proud of their race. Glad I clarified comrade!

I cant parse what you are saying in this comment whatsoever.

love isnt this real definitive thing that looks and feels the same for everyone. your feelings are brain chemicals, dont put so much pressure on yourself to box them into neat little categories.you dont want to say it too early, give it at least 2 months. if they say i love you its good to say it back somewhat soon, but beyond that dont stress too much

you gotta lay it on a lil bit thicker than “pretty”. throw in stunning, lovely, beautiful. complement their eyes and smile.

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