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Cake day: December 29th, 2023

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  • pride is a protest. it’s not a zoo - we aren’t here to be a spectacle, we aren’t here to be a tourist attraction for the state or federal governments

    we are here to fight for our rights and equality - which we still don’t have, despite some of the white picket fence crowd trying to say that since we have marriage it’s over

    police are the tool by which the majority oppresses the minority. as a symbol, police marching at mardi gras changes what it is - from a protest to an event - to a zoo for their amusement… their involvement is approval from the majority that what we’re doing is sanitised enough, is “ordinary” enough in their eyes

    are there queer police? of course! can they be proud of themselves, and of their job? again, of course! but when they represent the police force, in uniform, they represent a group whose purpose is directly against the protest that is the whole point of the event



  • not updating it is a stretch - a lot of people (myself included) are just sick of mozilla announcing all this slop like AI and adtech which we believe are counter to mozilla’s entire purpose, whilst leveraging firefox to add “features” that are almost entirely related to said slop rather than focusing on what people actually care about - a solid browser that competes with chrome

    everything of value that mozilla does directly relies on firefox. firefox gives them a seat at the table with google, apple, microsoft, etc to fight for users on standards and the future of the web



  • you mentioned islam in another comment, and i know very little about the rules related to this marital situation in context so please forgive some potential assumptions/ignorance and i’d be delighted to be corrected on any points im assuming incorrectly here:

    i assume that it’s 1 husband 4 wives, but that the wives aren’t allowed 4 husbands… in this case, it seems asymmetric in terms of, almost value between genders i guess?

    i’m a gay man, and we often have polyamorous relationships, but in that case it’s very symmetric: anyone can have a relationship with anyone, so everyone is entitled to the same kinds of things

    i’m wondering how that makes you feel as a women? you’ve said you’re very happy with the arrangement - i guess i’m wondering how you square the difference in entitlements? both for yourself, and in the relationship

    *edit: also interested in how the relationship handles him wanting a new wife: how (if?) that’s negatiated, and i guess whether you find your experience with that to be typical among people you know









  • and that all requires organisation, and organisation isn’t free - in fact the structures required to organise things like that are more expensive than the cost actually spent on the problem … you don’t just up and build houses - that’s not how any of this works… ask anyone that’s built a house, and they’re not even doing it on a large scale where complexity goes up significantly, or dealing with distributing money in a manner that they have to makes sure their expenditures are justified rather than just being able to make decisions for themselves