• fine_sandy_bottom
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    7 hours ago

    Sorry for your loss.

    Religion sucks so much, especially the more dogmatic ones. Mormonism is gross.

    One insight I would offer is that categorising people as “good” or “not good” may not be helpful. I suspect that your dad probably invests a lot of effort in being a good man, he’s just unable to acknowledge that his perspective has been corrupted.

    We judge ourselves by our intentions but others by their actions.

    It’s not wrong to never speak to him again, but maybe this will make the mourning easier.

    • meyotch@slrpnk.net
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      7 hours ago

      Thank you.

      Yes, I agree black and white categories aren’t the ideal way to describe people.

      But there comes a time when nuance is used against the compassionate to normalize reprehensible actions. We are in that time now.

      It is for these reasons that I cannot stand listening to NPR anymore. The ineffectual hand wringing and disingenuous ’liberal self-reflection’ is tiresome and we are well past the time for thoughtful think-pieces.