Try meow anarchy MODDED!!! It’s a great server and the perks are:

• You can suggest a mod and it will be added
• I am a very friendly admin
• Me and my wifey play regularly
• lots of mods (also technical mods)
• I Selfhost
• It runs pretty well to be honest
• It’s anarchy

Sorry for the blatant self promotion, but it’s not like this community is being spammed with similar. Yay, please join!