Well, what would you like? I mean nobody forces you to use Lemmy. At least that’s how it usually works. And this is the way Lemmy is designed. If you dislike it, a different Community / Instance / Platform might be better suited for you. There are “free-speech” Platforms that take pride in allowing people to say anything. That’s also the spirit of sites like 4chan. Maybe go there? I don’t think I have better advice.