No, going on a long spiel is not discussing your hobbies. It’s dominating the conversation and taking it from something that apparently she brought up, to about how he could help her with his knowledge. That’s not a conversation. A conversation would be asking her about it before assuming she literally knows nothing. Have a back and forth about it. Have her talk about her experience. He can talk about his. You know. Like two normal humans instead of a non-stop running lesson no one asked for.
No, going on a long spiel is not discussing your hobbies. It’s dominating the conversation and taking it from something that apparently she brought up, to about how he could help her with his knowledge. That’s not a conversation. A conversation would be asking her about it before assuming she literally knows nothing. Have a back and forth about it. Have her talk about her experience. He can talk about his. You know. Like two normal humans instead of a non-stop running lesson no one asked for.
MAN BAD
I am a man. I do not think that’s the message of any of this. Only a simple mind would come to such a conclusion. Do better.
You said the thing! Yes, I must must must must DO BETTER… the shame!