Could you frame a conversation with them as seeking advice about someone other than yourself? “One of my classmates is coming out and I want to support them, what do you recommend?”
Their reaction and advice could paint a pretty good picture without putting yourself in their crosshairs.
Worst case, you can refuse to name the person and maybe get grounded for protecting someone imaginary.
Could you frame a conversation with them as seeking advice about someone other than yourself? “One of my classmates is coming out and I want to support them, what do you recommend?”
Their reaction and advice could paint a pretty good picture without putting yourself in their crosshairs. Worst case, you can refuse to name the person and maybe get grounded for protecting someone imaginary.