• terminally_offline@infosec.pub
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    5 months ago

    You clearly think about men all the time if you have enough time to defend your worthless talking point on lemmy.

    My argument wasn’t contradictory, if you just stop and think about it. Yes I don’t give a fuck as in your singular experience doesn’t paint a larger picture.

    And yes I do hope no one would be burned by getting interested in someone as toxic as you clearly are.

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      5 months ago

      You clearly think about men all the time if you have enough time to defend your worthless talking point on lemmy.

      Yes, do you think because I don’t sleep with or date men, men and how to interact with men has been purged from my brain? I still need to interact with male coworkers, strangers, acquaintances, friends, metamours, etc. Lmao. Are your forehead veins throbbing right now?

      I say you sure are arrogant for assuming any man would be interested in you.

      And yes I do hope no one would be burned by getting interested in someone as toxic as you clearly are.

      Wait are you equating men with all people here? Lmao.

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        5 months ago

        And not once did you run away calling them all rapists while going to fetch a bear? Wow. Almost like your entire “I’d pick a bear” thing is a misandrist’s wet dream.

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          And not once did you run away calling them all rapists while going to fetch a bear?

          Why are you continuing to get mad at this strawman?

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                  Having realistic fears around dealing with men does not mean I hate them.

                  What are you even trying to cope about? Do you identify with the subgroup of men who are dangerous or are you just upset that women aren’t mindreaders so they are cautious around men, and taking it out on women and not the dangerous men who have created the climate of fear and uncertainty?

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                    I’m gay, I’m literally part of the group of men who would never be dangerous to a woman. Yet all I hear is all women are scared of the group I belong to (being a man) even though I’ve done nothing to deserve it. Then when I defend myself by bringing up how the math doesn’t check out suddenly I “don’t get it”.

                    It’s infuriating.

                    Don’t get me wrong, you’re totally allowed to have fears. But punishing the majority for the mistakes of a minority is literally a war crime. I should be allowed to defend myself as well without backlash.