I mean, could you imagine???

my whole life I thought I was only attracted to women, turns out I’m attracted to anyone who’s pretty

what a sigh of relief

  • AlicePraxis [any]@hexbear.netOP
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    though I’m also NB/agender so idk if “straight” was even an option anyway? but I look like a guy so being into women still felt kinda straight

    who cares tho gender is fake, if you cute you cute

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    the older i get the more i realize that if i was single id date just about anyone if i made the right emotional connection with them

    the rest is just rubbing skin and you can figure out how to do that in ways you both like

    not sure what orientation that is and dont really care life is too short

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      I’ve definitely broadened my horizons to the types of people I consider attractive as I’ve gotten older, not just in terms of gender but body type etc.

      still not really into manly men but idk maybe give it a few years lol

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        same i dont think ive ever felt any real romantic attraction to a big hairy guy but then again ive been involved in a monogamous relationship for almost 20 years now so its not like i spent a ton of time in scenarios where i was around guys like that trying to rizz me up or whatever

        im generally attracted to the feminine in a traditional way (my love has curves and all that) but i can see the beauty in almost all people so i think were i single id be out there just leaving the door ajar in my heart for whatever came my way and felt right and i think the world is better the more of us can do that

        realizing the worst thing that could happen is you figure out its not for you and then just move on is liberating not just in love but in a lot of other things in life too