So, I’m currently dating someone, and it’s my first time dating. I was a kissless virgin before this but I’m not kissless anymore ^^. Anyway, we get along really well, sharing a lot of interests and similar views. They’re a “newer” lefty, but they have a good head on their shoulders and are open to learning. We’re really excited about each other. We’ve talked a lot over voice chat, had three dates so far, and exchange a bit of daily texting. At this point, I’m pretty sure we’re going to become a couple, maybe even for a longer time.
Today is our 4th date, but I do not intend to tell them I love them because I’m not really sure how love feels. I definitely feel attraction, and it seems very mutual. I guess my question is: When do I tell someone I love them, and how do I know when I truly love them?
Im asking because this is literally my 1st time dating and I have never been involved in anything romantic.
Love is when every organ in your body feels like it will leave your mouth if you ever lose this person.c
You will know. Just relax and enjoy each other anyway. There’s really no need whatsoever to put a name on it, people rushing to do so are usually doing so out of some sort of insecurity.
The biggest piece of advice I think anyone dating should receive is to make sure you don’t let insecurities overtake you. A lot of relationships seem to die because the two people involved push each other apart over their own insecure behaviours.