Sorry about the awkward title; I had a lot of trouble trying to word it.
Anyway, I got my first pair of glasses yesterday. I went in for my first eye exam in nearly a decade, and apparently I have mild astigmatism. So for the past day I’ve been getting used to the sensation of having glasses on (I never cared for sunglasses, personally; I’ve always found them hard to see in) and getting a touch of euphoria about how they conceal the brow somewhat. But then it kinda hit me that I don’t really know anything about glasses, having not used them until age 36. I probably should have asked some questions about it when I picked them up, but I was kinda sick and didn’t want to stick around there too long.
I know I could just google it, but google sucks now, plus, I may as well use the AskBeehaw platform, it’s pretty quiet.
For years I was the only one in my family that didn’t wear glasses. When the doctor told me I needed glasses, I was so happy. I found glasses distinct, elegant, and, in girls, very very cute (my wife just started wearing glasses… wowza!).
My “real” me, the one I like and recognize in the mirror, has glasses on. And it’s not one of those glasses that pretend they’re not even there – it’s a thick black frame that dominates and complements my face.
I could totally get away with not wearing glasses in some situations, but (1) I like the visual comfort, and (2) I love wearing glasses.
Get the glasses that make you feel like yourself.
Yeah, I feel exposed without my glasses. I had the same pair of frames for well over a decade, so they were basically an integral part of “my face”. Only got a new pair a couple of years ago to replace them because time did eventually wear 'em down.
Also, they do good job masking the ever-present racoon bags under my eyes, which is nice.