But it can work for us men as well. I went through a very rough time after my divorce and lost every social contact I had and I tried to keep it on inside because, as you said, no emotions. Until at one time I broke down and couldn’t stop crying for longer than five minutes, no matter where I was or what I did. Then a random woman from my neighborhood picked me up, made sure I had someone to talk to, convinced me to get professional help and adopted me to her circle of friends. That helped me so much I can’t put in words how thankful I still am. I haven’t recovered fully, but I’m feeling way better.
Similarly, my partner - going through a divorce - was having a really rough time. Had some loud arguments with their now ex husband and got scrutiny from all of the neighbors for being so loud and emotional. Except for one, a woman who had been in his shoes and came over to offer emotional support, resources, and a friendship. That woman no doubt saved his life
But it can work for us men as well. I went through a very rough time after my divorce and lost every social contact I had and I tried to keep it on inside because, as you said, no emotions. Until at one time I broke down and couldn’t stop crying for longer than five minutes, no matter where I was or what I did. Then a random woman from my neighborhood picked me up, made sure I had someone to talk to, convinced me to get professional help and adopted me to her circle of friends. That helped me so much I can’t put in words how thankful I still am. I haven’t recovered fully, but I’m feeling way better.
Similarly, my partner - going through a divorce - was having a really rough time. Had some loud arguments with their now ex husband and got scrutiny from all of the neighbors for being so loud and emotional. Except for one, a woman who had been in his shoes and came over to offer emotional support, resources, and a friendship. That woman no doubt saved his life
She sounds like an amazing person. I’m glad she found you!🤍
She and her wife both are. I’m not sure where I’d be without them, but I’m pretty sure I’d be miserable.