Saw the results of the American elections today. I’m not American, but was following them very closely due to the impact they have on the world. The results went in a way that would make up my worst nightmares.

I was incredibly depressed and angry. I think almost everyone here shares the same sentiment. The next four years are very likely going to incredibly dark for everyone. Entire countries will likely fall to imperialist neighbors. Climate change will worsen. Zooming in to the US, disabled and queer folk will have an incredibly hard time now. More women will die due to abortion inaccessibility. It is very likely that people with preexisting conditions lose their insurance, thus increasing overall suffering and deaths. As I said, a very dark four years lie ahead for the world and Americans, both. Therefore, being depressed right now is absolutely valid.

I think there’s a lesson that I learnt here. I spent a lot of time and energy on something that simply wasn’t in my control. I am neither American, nor do I own news channels to broadcast propaganda suitable for my hoped outcome. Instead, I could’ve spent my time on other things, that are in my control, and would make the world a better place. Maybe adopting this mindset could help us?

Listen, I’m not saying that we should just all disconnect from politics. Not at all. All that I’m saying is that we probably should focus more on things in our control now. When elections come, vote. If the government is doing something stupid, go out and protest. Work on your little side project. Work on whatever it is you want to work on. Just try not to doomscroll social media. Doing that would just make you feel depressed and not end up helping anyone.

Therefore, here is what I’ve planned on doing now. Maybe you guys could find it useful, or maybe not.

  • Only participate in politics that is in my control.
  • Focus solely on my projects.
  • Block all social media posts that talk about depressing/angering topics that I have no control over. I only use YouTube and Lemmy, so doing this is easy for me. On Lemmy, I have put keywords like, “Trump”, “Harris”, “Elon” and so on in my post filter. I also unsubscribed from all political channels that talk about politics that I have no control over.

As for the Americans who are going to suffer due to a Trump presidency, I am sorry that there are so many stupid people in your country. I’m sure you tried your best. Millions of American showed up to vote against Trump. So many participated in canvassing and so on. So many working class folk donated money to the Harris campaign. Money, that they could’ve spent on other necessities. You don’t deserve this outcome.

However, the election is over. Trump has won. Doomscrolling social media is not going to help anyone. It’s a bad outcome, but it is very likely not the end of the world. I don’t think it needs to be said, but still- there’s a lot more to life than politics. Just because a person that you wanted to win didn’t win, it doesn’t mean that you can’t make the world a better place yourself. Grieve today and wake up tomorrow to focus on a project that you have control over.

AND PLEASE DON’T DOOMSCROLL.

  • grue@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    It’s not “the next four years!” Everything has now been put in place for the fascists to maintain a stranglehold on power indefinitely. America has just voted itself a dictatorship.

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      11 days ago

      Not entirely. The party in charge right now really loves the US constitution, which has some failsafes built into it.

      Additionally, that party hasn’t been able to put a likable candidate forward besides Trump. It’s likely the next election will be a shitshow for both parties and the US as a whole.

      • So the problem is … the President-elect has stated he would like to run for a third term.

        And, it’s possible with a constitutional amendment.

        And, I’ve been harping on for a long time about the 127 DC States plan - https://www.vox.com/2020/1/14/21063591/modest-proposal-to-save-american-democracy-pack-the-union-harvard-law-review - since this was first thought of, there was never a chance for Dems to execute it - the one time they had unified control over everything was in 2021 but Machin and Kyrsten Sinema would have never backed it (they were more like conservative leaning independents despite being members of the Democratic party).

        If the GOP takes the house, then under unified GOP control, they can use a variant of the 127 DC States plan against us.

        Liberal DC isn’t a good choice for the GOP, but I can see them getting the cooperation of a GOP-controlled state government and trying to split up, say, North and South Daktoka in the same way - one new State for each town and village, until they have similar numbers.

        Then drop the filibuster and pass a new law in Congress allowing the States to be split, and the Republican State govts pass laws agreeing to be split, and then it’s check and mate.

        If Dems get majority control of the House, then this can’t happen, and in 2026 Dems will likely gain Senate control back (even if they lose the House, though I’d bank on them holding both). Divided gov’t would be enough to save us from this worst case scenario. But if the GOP is unified, then I feel that all bets are off…

        Still hoping.

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    12 days ago

    I am definitely with you, this is awful. I am a woman in a country that just voted to disregard me. I will be trying to zoom in and focus on what I can control, but the oppressive reality is going to demand more and more of my attention. Stress will kill a lot of us. Lack of medical care will kill a lot of us. I am not giving up, but this is a huge loss for everyone and everything I care about. I love you guys. I want to love my fellow Americans, but the dissonance is painful. Thanks for the post. I was feeling very alone with the outcome, but I know millions will weep when they wake up.

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    12 days ago

    Yeah that’s basically what I plan on doing but some people do need to hear this. I’m basically going to focus on what I can control and keep my head down. I’ll plan head and probably brush up on survival skills and see what else I need to do in case shit hits the fan.