My child just started kindergarten. As far as I can tell, it’s wonderful and is the best place for him.
We’re just… people of means. We’ve saved a lot of money compared to the private schools we were considering.
I just don’t want this to be inappropriate. We’ll give to all the standard pta / school fundraisers and already do the wishlist and extra school supplies requests.
I’m still selfish. I do want plenty of it to benefit my child. Appropriately though.
I just also want to make sure that the (kindergarten) teachers can get pizza and beer or whatever without it seeming like bribery.
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Go talk to the teacher and just ask them?
If you want to so it anonymously, organize a spaghetti night as a fundraiser and end up raising a shitton more than you could expect from such an event?
To your first point, I’ve already done that. That misses the point that I want to give more than it’s ok for the teacher to ask for.
To your second point, yeah. No.
OK then