Nobody ever says this about mediocre white women, or any POC of any gender
Seems to me that these people want to date people of high social status/privilege in society - and due to mediocre white men’s complete lack of any highly positive qualities - by virtue of being “mediocre” - can more easily be stripped back to only being viewed as white and a man as the sole standing “positive qualities”, making them a more pure symbol of status/privilege
That is defined by each individual person. But some person by their own admission say they want “mediocre” white men 🤷🏼♀️, whatever that means to them. But surely by definition of the word it implies they want people without highly positive qualities or else they wouldn’t be “mediocre” in their eyes