Nobody ever says this about mediocre white women, or any POC of any gender
Seems to me that these people want to date people of high social status/privilege in society - and due to mediocre white men’s complete lack of any highly positive qualities - by virtue of being “mediocre” - can more easily be stripped back to only being viewed as white and a man as the sole standing “positive qualities”, making them a more pure symbol of status/privilege
Yep it’s not the men themselves that is desired, it’s the status and proximity to whiteness that is the actual prize
Money, passports, nepotistic connections, these are the motivating factors, real vulgar transactional behavior