some straight guy i was friends with was obsessed with me. he only cared if i liked men and had a bf for some reason, and would ignore that i liked women. he would act like i was straight and that if i dated women, that just meant i was single and obviously interested in him.
If you think about it enough you realize that the labels aren’t perfect and sexuality isn’t split into neat labellable categories
And on top of that, it’s malleable, changeable.