• Angry_Autist@lemmy.worlddeleted by creatorBanned from community
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    Oh plenty of things:

    having respect for others

    being honest

    helping the needy

    fair pay for fair work

    honestly considering others’ perspectives

    loyalty

    Basically every virtue I was ever told was worthy to embody has been used against me as a weapon or a tool

    And of the hundreds of people I know IRL less than 10% give any of these internal value or even attempted to put into practice

    And here I’ve been a sucker all my life doing the proper social contract thing because I don’t like the way the world is shaping up and getting CONSTANTLY bent over for it

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      How are you supposed to deal with this without just losing all your values and becoming like them?

      Are there any books or anything that someone can read on this?

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        Terry Pratchett’s Discworld series is what kind of did it for me, he was an amazing human.

        Or a cruel dreamer for making me think that this was how the world was supposed to be.

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          Thanks! Definitely reading this one now though its kinda long. I had heard about it but didn’t see anyone put it this way before.