It’s tough because she has a lot of trauma too. Sometimes there’s power imbalance caused by perception and trauma, wherein she feels like even if I say she should speak her mind, I’ll get upset if she does. Vigilance is necessary to regain balance. ^^
Yep, trauma is a powerful beast. My partner has also been working on this and she’s made some amazing progress. Despite that, she still recognizes the triggers are still there and works through them
Excellent point. Allowing space for reflection and self discovery is important.
It’s tough because she has a lot of trauma too. Sometimes there’s power imbalance caused by perception and trauma, wherein she feels like even if I say she should speak her mind, I’ll get upset if she does. Vigilance is necessary to regain balance. ^^
Yep, trauma is a powerful beast. My partner has also been working on this and she’s made some amazing progress. Despite that, she still recognizes the triggers are still there and works through them