Are you seriously finding calling people by correct pronouns difficult?

How would you ever know? You are not going to use third-person pronouns in front of the subject and there is no contention around the use of second-person pronouns that I am aware of. If you use the wrong third-person pronoun in front of others on the rare occasion that you need to talk about someone, they aren’t going to notice or care.

If there’s a bandwidth issue and right wing people are so concerned about it

He said they are trolling you, not that they have concern. There is nothing to be concerned about.