Shaving my balls.

Like actually though, heard of many that its too uncomfortable. It may have been the first time, but I feel so much better about my body when I do it. Like its the core of the body.

So I’m a very hairy man, like a lot of body hair, all over. I was always a bit uncomfortable with it as I’ve had people turn me down once they saw me with my hair out. But in uni I started dating a woman who kind of liked and that started making me feel a little better. But once we started getting very physical, her favourite thing to do was to ride on top of me and prop herself up just enough so that nipples would drag through my chest and tummy hair. She said she loved the way my hair teased her nipples as she rode me. I loved the way she looked down at that with lust in her eyes as she pumped up and down on my cock. That stuff really turned me around on accepting my body.
That taught me that yeah some people aren’t going to be in to me because of how I looked but some people are going to be really in to it.

Partner likes resting her head on my chest, playing with the hair. Never really thought much about it before then but feels rather cozy to have her there and also feels rather nice.

Nursing made me feel like my boobs were real. They never got big (like not much at all, pretty darn flat) and guys always were kind of mean or dismissive, even my ex loved me in spite of my build, not because of it, understand? I didn’t want big boobs but just was made to feel inadequate in a way.

They didn’t grow when pregnant or nursing but made SO MUCH MILK it was incredible. And so convenient, no fussing with positions or trying to get the kid to latch on, no worries about falling asleep and smothering them. No stretch marks no sagging. They fed my kids! I really appreciate them now for not getting big (and finally got a man who prefers small, too) but absolutely it was nursing that felt like a big fuck-off to everyone who told me they were underdeveloped. They were not.

Menopause gave me a little torso fat so they are a bigger small now, and I like that too. But I don’t care much, they did a great job and saved me thousands of dollars in formula over the years.

Maybe not the kind of answer you’d expect here, but getting seriously injured and becoming crippled.

Its pretty hard to do basically anything when half the muscles in your body don’t work right and seize and cause immense pain, for hours at a time.

… Don’t take anything for granted.

I’m a year into daily at home physical therapy, and I’ve improved a lot, out of the wheel chair, out of the braces, now I can hobble around with just a cane…

But holy shit, becoming crippled is a pretty good way to get humbled and get a perspective shift on your entire body… and life in general…

…and then doing a year plus of exceedingly painful work, and seeing it pay off, being able to do things you haven’t been able to do in 2 years… you know, like stand and take a piss? Put your shoes or pants on without sitting down? Use a fucking fork?

Feels good, man.

gave my partner a hug

Dancing gave me a new appreciation to every part of my body!

But also my partner licking my ear made me realize how sensitive ears can be!