Day 2 of trying to breath life into this sub and get the chatter going. How honest would you say you are about your kinks and fetishes? Is there something you’d never share with another soul or are you as open as can be?
I don’t think I have a single kink or fetish I haven’t been able to share with at least one person in some way, and if I’ve ever been asked I’ve always been open, whether I feel ill be judged or not.
Let’s try and keep this a judgement freezone too, if at all possible :)
With online partners, I usually draw attention to my kinklist and encourage them to make one if they haven’t so I can see where we’re compatible and not compatible to try to maximize our time together. With IRL partners I tend to just find one or two things that we share in common. If a partner asks “Hey, are you into this?” I’ll usually be honest because I don’t want to waste time.
With non-partners I tend to be pretty closed off. There’s no reason why roommates/trivia team/drinking buddies/whatever need to know about what I’m into.