Day 8 already!

Do you ever regret turning down something sexual? Something you look back on and think I wish I’d taken them up on that offer?

The worst for me is when I turned down a threesome, out of loyalty to a friend (one of the women was his ex, and ya boy don’t play those games). He turned out to be a massive snake years later and it does make me feel like I should of just gone for it.

How about you guys?

  • Pm_us_kinky_comments@fedinsfw.app
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    14 days ago

    Mostly no, because even if today we don’t have the same wishes and would agree to something, it’s important to stay true to oneself and respect what we were at the time. There are some things either of us probably could have done before that we now wish we had done, but it was not for the person we each were at the time ! So TL DR, no regrets only hindsight :)

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      14 days ago

      Ah yeah, it’s probably more hindsight than regret. And then every decision leads us to where we are now, and if that’s in a good place we shouldn’t regret what we didn’t do

  • Big_Boss_77@fedinsfw.app
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    13 days ago

    Not really… but sometimes, in the dead of night, when I can’t sleep… I regret not being honest with myself and not taking the opportunity to go to a rave and find some crazy, manic raver girl and spending a weekend high as bird pussy doing obscene shit to each other…

    Then I usually roll over and go back to sleep so my wife can wake me up in an hour for snoring.

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    13 days ago

    In my younger days, I was with a girl who had an ex fuck boy come around and we would have MMF threesomes. But I tried to get a FFM setup with her, but it never happened. And that isn’t exactly an option with my current wife.

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    13 days ago

    I’d say more “what ifs” not regrets. The opportunity wasn’t worth the current relationship but definitely would’ve been fun

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    13 days ago

    A girl I used to chat to on Kik messenger lived a few hours away. She said she’d suck my dick if I went to meet her. But I was too embarrassed to tell anyone I was away to meet a girl so it never happened lol 😵‍💫

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    12 days ago

    My regrets are more like not being bold enough to create those chances. I don’t regret turning down those that I turned down.

  • bendovertherainbow@fedinsfw.app
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    13 days ago

    More a generic one, wish I had realized I was bi. I liked women, so obviously not gay because women turn me on so much.

    Yeah…

    Would have certainly changed how I handled a few people! Literally.

    I should have realized bisexuality as an option, honestly. Turned down an offer for a BJ while rock hard thinking about it. Even got off to it later. And STILL I thought “yeah but she’s so fucking hot there’s no way I can be gay”

    So I regret being so oblivious to my own desires I guess