In the last year or so I started to see so many people of my age that have done truly incredible things and still doing more.
For the vast majority of my life my only goals were gettimg academic satisfaction and doing unproductive stuff in the free time to get temporary pleasure. No end goal whatsoever.
I kind of don’t know what I’ve been doing in the last 17 years while someone gets a patent on solar systems, other invents a new recyclable plastic, and another found a successful startup. I mean, they all find what they’re supposed to be doing with their lives and excel in them.
I feel overwhelmed for trying to pace up with these kind of people. Yet I don’t like the way the things are and I can’t do anything but envy those people.
Anyone with experience in this regard? How did you deal with this? Did you eventually “pace up” with these people or was it too late or an unattainable goal?
Edit: Whoops, I didn’t expect so many replies! Thanks, I’ll look into them all
Sounds like you might have depression, maybe try looking into that. Good luck with everything!
Got my third diagnosis 😭
Ok comparison is bad but what in this thread even makes you think I might be depressed? I’m just harsh with my past and I believe I’m rightful to do so, and overwhelmed a bit about my life overall. Like, I’m still high-functioning, I’m motivated enough to carry out challenging stuff daily
I used to be depressed though, on a “high” level. I think I got over it by now
It’s the whole vibe of your response - the whole feeling of helplessness is often associated with depression, being overwhelmed by life is also a very frequent symptom of depression.
Being high-functioning and motivated to carry out with life doesn’t mean you’re not depressed.
I’m not saying you are depressed, that can’t be diagnosed over few simple comments, I’m just saying you sound like you might be depressed and it might be good to go check with a professional if that’s the case.