Trying to get some input for someone else. Was thinking of upskilling, finding a group, developing a hobby, guided activities. Any ideas?

  • Keshara@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    I’ve gone up and down throughout my life, and these days I am quite an awkward individual in person.

    However, what worked for me in my early 20s when I was probably at my most sociable was finding a hobby to interact with people in. Even something as simple as a monthly book group can work wonders on your social skills

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      From your perspective, is it easier to let them figure it out, or for me to try to participate also, then ease up when they find some momentum?

      • Keshara@piefed.blahaj.zone
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        I think it has to depend on a person by person basis. For example, I have to be left for me to figure it out, if anyone else tries to get involved then I guarantee I will be burnt out after a day and then just give up for a while.

        Others may benefit from the help and guidance, but not all of us unfortunately 😔