I’ve never had an SO. :(

  • balderdash@lemmy.zip
    3·
    8 months ago

    She (somewhat jokingly?) told my family that she didn’t want kids at thanksgiving. Everyone (including her) knows that I want kids. She had been somewhat indecisive in the past, but it became clear to me that our long-term goals didn’t align. We talked about it and eventually broke up.

    • Damaskox@kbin.social
      1·
      8 months ago

      Way to go!
      No reason to continue if you don’t gain more than what you lose.

      Many ladies have asked, why I don’t want kids. At this point I just copy-paste my PROS&CONS -list to them 😂 (I made a list during one short relationship where she wasn’t sure, does she want kids)
      I am happy I found a lady that tilts towards not wanting kids (I know the opinion can change, but she’s already in an age where it gets difficult to get kids anymre).