• 420blazeit69 [he/him]@hexbear.net
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          1 year ago

          This isn’t a both sides situation. You have OP blatantly trolling and the people he’s trolling telling OP to eat shit.

          Telling someone to eat shit isn’t nice or productive, but assholes like OP don’t respond to civility or trying to engage them on substance.

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      you’re right, I should not have been rude. I should’ve been more mean. considering db0 was accusing others of gaslighting and being a general asshole, fuck db0 and fuck civility.

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        1 year ago

        This you?

        It’s fucking rich for the hexbears to engage almost a thousand comments of bullying, and then accuse me of harassing them when I defend myself once in their place. Y’all trippin’!

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          yep that’s me! and you to. I was told later on there was a ping, but it was edited out, and for everyone else on hexbear, no ping showed up. and in your instance the ping still showed up unedited. since for whatever reason, instances don’t always update or stay consistent all around or something. federations are weird but it could’ve been chalked up to weird federation stuff since no one was gaslighting anyone.

          but hey, feel free to say im gaslighting you again. for someone who likes to casually accuse everyone of gaslighting, I really doubt you give a shit. since your first thing to do was to accuse others of gaslighting, when no one was.

          I still stand by everything I said. Especially because you were hostile as fuck to someone else. also I don’t like you because whether intentionally or not, you help fascists, imperialists and capitalists, with your whole “tankies” bad bullshit. Besides always funny when people shit on “tankies” when “tankies” are some of the most nicest people out there. of course you won’t see that, and maybe there a reason for that.

          but hey, it was “tankies” that were here for me when my mom died. or here for me when I am having trouble with stuff like eating, staying hydrated or dealing with family issues. also like, going to the world at large, those “evil tankie authoritarian countries” are the most progressive places on earth. Like Cuba has the most progressive lgbtq+ rights out there. Meanwhile in the U.S, america trying to erase trans people like me.

          also like, there have been people that have engaged you politely.

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            your first thing to do was to accuse others of gaslighting, when no one was.

            I was gaslit 3 times in that thread alone I linked to right now. And there was a hundred-comment pileup on my instance as well.

            So You ignorantly stick your nose in something you half-ass, You call me a harasser even though you see I was responding to something, and then get all huffy when I fire back at you? And I’m the asshole? Get a grip.

            Fact is, from my perspective, I was being gaslit. The onus is not on the victim to delve into the personal history and technical knowledge of the other party to ensure they didn’t gaslit unintentionally.

            Meanwhile in the U.S, america trying to erase trans people like me.

            How does China feel about homosexuality again?

            but hey, it was “tankies” that were here for me when my mom died. or here for me when I am having trouble with stuff like eating, staying hydrated or dealing with family issues. also like, going to the world at large, those “evil tankie authoritarian countries” are the most progressive places on earth. Like Cuba has the most progressive lgbtq+ rights out there. Meanwhile in the U.S, america trying to erase trans people like me.

            I’d love to see you all caring about as much for the trauma of the people you’re dunking on before you do it, but I guess flagging dissent as “liberals” or “wreckers” is convenient to dehumanize them so that anything goes from that point.