• phillaholic@lemm.ee
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    10 months ago

    In order to change my name I had to pay a newspaper to announce it so it’s in the public record beyond court records.

    What was your reaction to being told that?

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      10 months ago

      I was pissed. I was a broke college student and it was like $60 that I had to scrounge together. And it wasn’t the safest thing to be openly a trans woman in Ohio at the time. I didn’t necessarily want to hide from the future, but I also didn’t want people from my past to see as I was making a lot of clean breaks at the time.