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    5 months ago

    Wholesome af. Insert something about kindness transcending all language or some sappy shit

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    Good for this dude. It’s actually really hard making friends at that stage in life and he went and did it.

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    Not to sound like a mid-90s Diane Lane movie, but it really is what happens when you “put yourself out there.”

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    This is what it looks like when people who have wealth have no problem sharing it with others. Not monetary wealth but rich in community.

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      It’s also what it looks like when you treat people as people, rather than trying to win a split second of approval by being racist on 4chan.

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    When I was a cook in west Hollywood I was basically the only white dude in the kitchen. Honestly was the best time I had with coworkers while I was there. They were hard, good, and funny workers. One night after a super stressful shift one of the other cooks was giving me a ride home and we stopped at a gas station he came back with two 40’s and said “this is for the relax”. I’ll never forget that crew.

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      BOH is the perfect case study for how forced tight knit interactions can form into cultural melting pots. Lets break some barriers people.

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    ‘thees ees my ese he work at (any restauraunt in the entire city)’ just over and over

    This is my _____??

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      That sounds like exactly the “bullshit stereotype lifted straight from a movie” that you’re trying to pin on others.

      Real life isn’t a Billy Joel song. All that 99 out of 100 people need from a bartender is “What can I get you?” followed by getting it.

      Even more bizarrely, do you honestly think that a stranger who is drunk and oversharing qualifies as a friend? Do you think therapists have patients, or do you think they’ve just got a lot of super cool friends they hang out with all day?

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      When I worked for a big hotel company, people didn’t care about the bartender. While I was there, the cooks received a small tip and said they never received one. I think it depends where you are bartending. Party with drunk people? Yeah that’s your scenario. Rich people that only look/talk to you to ask for something, my case and maybe anons case. I didn’t find anything racist, tho. Would like to know what is racist/xenophobic.