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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/amadeuslanyard on 2024-01-24 14:30:20+00:00.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and I’ve never been so in love and happy with someone. It feels like I’ve got my best friend forever. We’ve recently moved in together and it’s been great but I’m starting to realise I’m not getting everything I need from the relationship.

He never flirts with me anymore, not in a sexy or romantic way. He never feels like he has to “woo” or “seduce” me and I really wish he would. I need this in a relationship because it keeps things exciting and fun. I miss the early days feelings of excitement. Now he’ll almost only suggest sex in a gross or jokey way, never actually making me feel turned on about the idea of it.

I’ve spoken to him about this already but nothings changed. I love him so much, but I’m missing the flirtiness I crave. How can I have a better conversation with him about this?

TLDR; My boyfriend doesnt make me feel sexy or wanted anymore. I wish he’d flirt with me.