Like if your vegan anarchist grandma and vegan anarchist dad were the same person.
I am an engineer (closer to toot toot then clicky clacky) cosplaying as a farmer in unceded aninstanabe territory in eastern ontario.
- canada plant hardiness zone: 5a
- extreme minimum temperature zones: 4b
- climate data from my garden
Pronouns: she/they
Maybe the real vegan theory club were the friends we made along the way ✨
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Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineOPto
Autism@lemmy.world•Recommendations for apps like Finch that are less...stimulating?English
1·20 hours agoOh shit thank you so much. I already use it for mood tracking and totally ignored all the other features. I will take another look!
ETA: it does have streaks and gives me notifications about risking them breaking but I imagine I can probably disable this?
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Autism@lemmy.world•Dear Autism, please tell me about your "low-demand" lifestyleEnglish
2·22 hours agoHello, are you me???
Thank you for the response :)
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlinetoPolitical Memes@lemmy.world•American ExceptionalismEnglish
10·24 hours agoWasn’t the case this ruling was tied to about election obstruction? Not sure how that’s more of an official act?
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's it going to take to truly stop the US?English
12·1 day agoImportantly other countries aren’t that mad about it either. I saw some posts about Trump making comments that seemed to suggest that mexico and canada could be targeted in the future for intervention related to drugs, so I went to canadian news sites to see what was up. The canadian government is basically like, “I’m not angry, I’m disappointed” and mostly because it goes against the norms of polite imperialism.
I won’t link to her twitter account, but here is the statement:

Alt text:
The Hon. Anita Anand Minister of Foreign Affairs
Since 2019, when Canada closed its embassy in Venezuela, we have refused to recognize any legitimacy of the Maduro regime and opposed its repression of the Venezuelan people, including the persecution of dissenters and particularly political leaders opposed to the regime.
In keeping with our long-standing commitment to upholding the rule of law and democracy, Canada calls on all parties to respect international law and we stand by the people of Venezuela and their desire to live in a peaceful and democratic society.
Canada is engaging with its international partners and monitoring developments closely.
Canada stands ready to assist Canadians in need through our consular officials and embassy in Bogotá, Colombia.
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlinetoPolitical Memes@lemmy.world•American ExceptionalismEnglish
28·1 day agoOh?
The Supreme Court’s decision to grant presidents immunity from prosecution for criminal acts committed while in office not only gives Donald Trump a free pass for his past crimes, but sets a dangerous precedent for all future presidents.
I’m geriatric millennial so I also write formally and use bold, italic and underline in written communication. Oh, and lots of numbered lists!! However, AI applies it differently than I’ve ever seen humans do it, and it doesn’t make sense to me. So lump me right in there with the not wanting to change because AI is wrong.
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•What ableist views do people have about you?English
9·1 day agoI think it’s quite relevant given the types of comorbidities people with autism are more likely to have 💕
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•What ableist views do people have about you?English
17·1 day agoDamn, yeah being late diagnosed really puts a different lens on all the fun I had with dating.
✅ Impossible to flirt with because I don’t understand indirect communication. I also don’t know how to flirt.
✅ Total inability to play the games of dating (not the negative ones but the “dance” of courtship, I guess?"
✅ Rejection sensitivity making it impossible to know if someone likes me so I just assume no one is interested unless they flat out tell me in so many words and BOY HOWDY did that lead to some awkward situations
✅ People felt super rejected because people “make time for those they care about” whereas my lack of executive function means they probably are getting all my free time but it doesn’t look like that to an NT.
Both fortunately and unfortunately this manifested as manic Pixie dream girl energy so I did have access to dating. I didn’t think I would have been able to find a partner without internet dating though.
Funny anecdote: I once went on a first (and last lmao) date where we watched 500 Days of Summer in theater and that’s probably one of the worst 1st date movies ever 😬. But it was definitely a massive eye opener to the fact that people fall in love with an idea sometimes and that’s awful .
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•What ableist views do people have about you?English
9·1 day agoThanks mate, I’ll just try harder and buy a day planner.
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•What ableist views do people have about you?English
18·1 day agoEven if you aren’t like that in public - people always tell me how organized I am (well, my desk is usually a mess but my information is organized). Thanks, I need my Systems© or I’ll fall apart and it’s killing me to maintain them so…
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•It's Saturday 1/3/2025. Hey, What's Going On!English
2·1 day agoChatty cats are a treasure 💕
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Vegan Home Cooks@lemmy.world•Pizza with crumbled tofu, artichoke, pepper and olivesEnglish
51·2 days ago
Whoops, I mean

It rules
All communities are “exclusively hosted” on an individual instance? I don’t get the joke.
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•It's Friday 1/2/2026. Hey, What's Going On!English
2·2 days agoI’m a chemical engineer. I’m AuDHD but I HATE working at home. I want to be out in the field looking at stuff. Luckily there is no dress code (apart from safety gear lol) and I’d like to see someone try and tell me my fidget toys are unprofessional…
I would probably not do well in a lot of traditional engineering environments but I have managed to carve out a niche where I am basically the troll in the basement people come to with their problems. Let’s just say neurodivergence is over represented in my field 😅
Unfortunately we (and my part of the industry) are terribly understaffed so I’ve been working myself death for the last couple of years. This has lessened my ability to mask/cope. Some of the main challenges I have are:
- supervising people: most people I have supervised are super awesome and I’m happy to go to bat for them but once and a while I’m not so lucky.
- delegating and saying no: for the most part no one is overseeing my work so it’s really hard to get support prioritizing. Again, there is more work than any of us can do and this leads to conflict when my peers want someone from me and I have to say sorry, we’re not going to do that.
- over stimulation/slow processing speed: 9/10 times I manage to attempt to chair hybrid meetings in a large board room with people having side conversations and take minutes without crying but sometimes I don’t 🤷♀️
- inability to lie/unbridled rage at being lied to: I work with contractors and consultants and I absolutely cannot play the game - I call out lies without realizing that’s what I’m doing and you can imagine how well that goes over. Especially from a woman. Not lying also means adding tonnes of caveats to all of my answers because if I don’t give all the context that’s lying right???
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Autism@lemmy.world•It's Thursday 1/1/2026. Hey, What's Going On!English
3·3 days agoI enjoyed some nice time spent doing activities in silence next to my partner. It included working on this prototype dishware


I probably won’t fire this because I think the bowl has a crack and the plate doesn’t have a great foot but the idea is that the saucer is also a lid for the bowl so that when I can’t finish my meal or snack I can just throw the lid on and forget about it for a while. I intend to make a set that stacks for easy storage.
Arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineto
Trippin' Through Time@lemmy.ca•I'm pretty much doing this rnEnglish
2·3 days agoThe meaning of flash in the way I use it is pre-drawn tattoo art offered by artists. This is in contrast to custom tattoos. In my community, there is a much shorter wait to get flash than a booking for a custom piece. The cost is usually less too. An artist might offer flash as a way to pick up extra clients without the effort of custom work because they often don’t allow too much customization, and often specify allowable size ranges and areas where they are willing to tattoo. It’s easier to estimate the duration of the appointment so they can fit more appointments in. It might be a tattoo that appeals to them personally or a technical challenge they want to add to their portfolio. Some artists will do the designs only once, others will repeat.
The cat in my tattoo is in place of the demon in the original art, not the horse. The horse is absent entirely. I don’t know why the artist chose to do that. I didn’t ask.
Lmao I am sure that more millennials and Gen z folks use AI in their emails than I realize but it’s the boomers and Gen x who largely fail to remove the telltale formatting, in my experience.









Dear sir,
It is my duty to inform you that your meme is incorrect. It is very important that memes are taken exactly literally and that they are never a medium for conveying themes in a humourous or absurd manner especially when they are about weed.
Kind regards, A.P.