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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Your continuous misrepresentation of Exploding Heads is depressing. Burning hatred for redditors? Where do most of the anti-reddit posts on Exploding Heads originate from? Mostly from the new instances. You say dark corners of the internet, but we’re digital neighbors.

    If you check the timestamps on that thread you linked you’ll see the non-EH people attached themselves to my comment from god knows where. It was unwanted, unsolicited, I’ve never seen them before and they used it as an example to show how a lemmy thread works. I blocked most of them, that’s why you see my engagement disappear.

    That’s the example you use.

    I was here years before you guys. I’ve seen the lemmyverse struggle. I have advocated so hard for openness, inclusiveness and communication through interconnectivity - all the while saying that people should block what they don’t like or find offensive.

    I find this whole thread symbolic of the culture you all on average have brought with you. Prejudice, misrepresentation, moral reprisals… I had it enough conflict, I know Exploding Heads won’t block you and I know I can’t be bothered to individually block thousands and thousands of users accusing me of the most horrible things, like being a Nazi.

    At least you guys won’t have to block two known prolific shitposters maybe having opinions other than yourselves, mostly in a space you’d have to seek out.

    By being on the sh.itjust.works you are personally as responsible for this as the average exploding-head user is responsible for a few of our idiots posting on the internet. I’m leaving lemmy until full instance block is available for individual users so I won’t ever have to interact with the type of average user I’ve seen on sh.itjust.works. Or at least in this thread.

    You all drove me away from this platform. At least I have the decency not to seriously argue that you all should be disconnected from other instances.














  • I’d say it’s obviously people trying to punish you for your opinions, hiding behind “anonymity”. No debate, no co-existence. They just want to annoy you and make sure you see it. Their aim is attention to the act.

    If it’s possible to ignore, ignore it. You’ll win.

    If anonymous cowards keep up downvoting comments and posts on here due to what seems like ideological differences, there are tools that can analyze the downvotes and find out who they are. I’m not a fan of blocking due to different opinions, but this seems more like an attempt at destabilizing the service for you. Blocking the offender from the exploding-heads would rid us of the problem.





  • I guess it depends on the point of view. Is it your responsibility to make sure people don’t see things they might not like? On the other hand, is it your responsibility to not potentially traumatise people?

    I wouldn’t watch gore on public transport, not out of principle but of fear of social reprisal. I don’t want to be targeted by some sociopathic person blasting my face all over social media as someone who enjoys torture, particularly because it would be a perversion of truth.



  • I’ve selv-hosted this directly from my home IP - no problem!

    Of course it didn’t federate and was only open to friends and family behind an SSO portal so random visitors would never know - I’m not crazy. That would be like building a stage and send out invitations (in many ways as intended), but I used it as a warehouse and installed lockable doors!

    A lot of services people would think of as “internet sites” works great with self-hosting, it’s mainly just a matter of thinking things through. People that fuck up spectacularly and get on the news for openly hosting the hottest shit to like 500 million users just for the hell of it… Those are the type of people we hear about.

    We never hear about those who lay low and never get in trouble, regardless of the legality of the contents.