I feel like there would be a lot less Trans Distress™ if we chased gender euphoria instead of focusing solely on our dysphoria.
I personally have been there before in my own journey and felt that guilt that you’re experiencing, like if I’m not crying myself to sleep every night I’m not trans enough.
But, I kind of liken it to taking a walk in chilly weather, you’re uncomfortable, awkward, trying to cover yourself up, that kind of thing. Gender Euphoria to me feels like putting on a comfy coat on that chilly day- it feels nice, feels right, I’m warm now. I wasn’t going to die walking around with no coat, but it sure does feel a helluva lot better with one, yanno?
I’ve been lurking around following your posts and I just wanted to chime in for a second. Hope it’s not offensive or anything and really hope it makes sense. I have nothing but love and pride watching your personal journey unfold and whatever you decide, it will be a choice you made for YOURSELF and that’s what’s important 🥰
Anecdotally when I was younger and mine were coming in wearing something over them didn’t change how big they got even though I was wearing really tight sports attire- but just keep in mind that when they do get bigger any collected sweat from your underboob can lead to rashes and general discomfort, so if you feel more comfortable wearing something, just make sure to wash the area often and make sure the skin is dry before wearing more clothing. I also put a little bit of baby powder underneath to keep myself feeling comfy. Hope this helps!