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Cake day: April 11th, 2024

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  • Leave my mother out of this.

    I do get what you’re saying. I am 17 years into that kind of relationship. But the domestication is voluntary, and capture is something others DO want to do. Capture isn’t the goal, but as you said, a mutual choice to be domesticated because of wanting to be closer to someone. To create the third entity, the bond.

    That being said, my mother was an emotionally and physically abusive carer.

    Bladerunner “let me tell you about my mother” gif.



















  • Some of us need stimulation. A three piece jigsaw puzzle won’t do it. Give me the 10,000 piece puzzle.

    I rejoice in an author who writes for pleasure and meaning, who asks difficult questions, who doesn’t limit themselves, who creates and exploits paradox.

    It helps my intellect grow, captures my attention, and leaves delicious remnants to decipher long after completion of the material. The ability to read again with a different perspective is beautiful.

    So no, it’s not pretentious or confusing. It is just more difficult for some, immensely pleasurable to others.