Thank you so much, that makes complete sense

Usually we just talk about life and whatever. I reconnected with him after finding his profile online after he messaged me.

He calls me one and he’s nice to me, so possibly

Definitely not. Even if I thought he was annoying due to his autism and such, I grew up and it’s definitely not his fault how I chose to react to his autism

I’m straight

I mean, I’ve talked to him in high school about how he was so annoying and I defended people who bullied him, but since then, we haven’t talked about that. I don’t like engaging in deep discussion, unfortunately

What exactly did the dysphoria feel like?

Yeahhh, hopefully we can still be friends

Thank you 🙂

I’m sure it will. I’m now friends with the girl I bullied in high school, who is a trans man now.

She said we probably wouldn’t talk for a while and she needs to process things, but she understands

Thanks! This resonated with me

Like, a year and a half. I used to like people for personality. I thought I did, but I only like the personality of a man. That is to say, I thought I didn’t care about gender and just liked personality, but in reality, I only like men and don’t care about appearance of men.

It was very good, thanks so much. She said we probably wouldn’t talk for a while as she processes the breakup

Thanks so much.

Thank you! Maybe,

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel. Remember that as you continue your journey, though, I’ll be here as your friend to support you.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

Thank you. I’ll try to be gentle

Thank you