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Cake day: June 4th, 2025

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  • Honestly, it’s going to be awkward regardless, but it’s an important conversation to have. Just speak frankly, dont judge him, and don’t press the issue.

    He doesn’t need to worry about shaving pubes, he’ll figure that out if he wants to do it, but it might be a good idea to let him know he should do it because he wants to, rather than because his partner does.

    Hygiene is also not likely an issue if he’s gone this long without problems. If he doesn’t wear deodorant yet, just buy him a stick the next time you get groceries and let him know he needs it now.

    Regarding porn, mention that it’s entertainment, not a guidebook. Porn is not like the real thing so don’t try to imitate things.


  • The thing about IT professionals is that we’re all kind of bad at our job. That generally comes from overwork, the fact that technology changes as quickly as it does, and a loss of passion for the subject once we start doing it for a living.

    The lesson is that mistakes are common and testing is rare when it comes to scripts. If someone gives you that instead of a fully packaged installer, always read through it so you know what it’s doing.












  • I think the “black box” nature of electronics is mostly illusory due to how we treat our devices. A friend bought a walking treadmill that wouldn’t turn on out of the box. She contacted the company, they told her to trash it and just shipped her a new one.

    She gave it to me, I took it apart. One of the headers that connects the power switch to the mainboard was just unplugged. It took literally 10 minutes to “fix” including disassembly and assembly, and all I needed was a screwdriver.

    This is a symptom of industry switching to cheap “disposable” electronics, rather than more expensive, robust, and repairable ones.

    From the treadmill company’s point of view, it’s cheaper to just lose one unit and pay shipping one way rather than pay to have the unit returned, spend valuable technician time diagnosing and fixing an issue and then pay to ship the repaired unit back.

    About 50 years ago, you could find appliance repair shops that would fix your broken toaster or TV, and parts for stuff like that were easily available. Now, with the advanced automation in building these, combined with the increased difficulty of repair(fine-work soldering, firmware debuging and the like) it makes way more sense to just replace the whole thing.


  • You’re not wrong. I love onions, but I will freely admit that they are a powerful flavor and they are basically in everything.

    I will note that if you’re in this camp, that if you soak your onions in water for a couple minutes after slicing they are significantly less pungent, and will allow you to taste the other stuff better without sacrificing the texture they add