Gorb [they/them]

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Cake day: March 14th, 2024

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    • made up bullshit techbro job
    • made up bullshit techbro job 2
    • made up bullshit techbro job 3
    • made up bullshit techbro job 4

    10 years and I’ve produced nothing of notable value. Usually i barely scrape past a year at any job but the one i have now is alright cos my team is very ND so I don’t feel like I’m decaying every day. Also technically I’ve moved position inside this company multiple times so dnow if that counts











  • I’m pretty certain thats normal. My closest friends are those which I met at school and any new friends are just colleagues i get on with at that point in time but if either one of us moves on to somewhere else we absolutely will not stay in contact or if we do it won’t be that often.

    My theory is that new people already have their own established friend groups so can’t make much time for anyone else and its hard to ever be as important as an established long term friend group. The only person I met after school that I’m close to is my boyfriend.

    To still have friends later in life in any form is honestly a blessing a lot of people aren’t so fortunate. But it genuinely is hard to form long term close friends it requires a lot of interaction but also a lot of events to bond over which for most newer people you meet just won’t happen because school and uni are the best times for silly antics to look back on. I’ve met NT people that have large “friend” groups from later in life but it always seems very hollow, those friends being the kind of people who wouldn’t even piss on you if you were on fire. The definition of friend between ND and NT people seem to be quite different.