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Cake day: July 13th, 2023

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  • That reply is pretty measured considering the topic of women’s preferences was already set. They weren’t going out of their way to hate on women.

    People can be pretty shallow creatures, men and women alike. So obviously, whilst money or beauty is not the be all and end all, it allows people to make a better first impression and pass some initial filters. Denying that is just deluding yourself.

    Obviously there are always going to be exceptions, some people are actively repulsed by wealth or the current beauty standards





  • The main issue with YouTube premium is the price, I can’t imagine that they’re making anywhere near $14 a month from showing me ads that I never click on. I’d love to see a breakdown, including how much is subsiding free users, how much is going to creators, and how much is going into the pockets of shareholders.

    I think like most if not all of the people I know would easily pay $5 dollars for premium





  • I would say hand size is something I’d avoid too. Particularly women and trans-women get mocked for “man-hands” a lot. I know you’re talking about Trump, and in that context I’m not really aware of any major stigma, I would just be worried about creating it.

    But like I said, I’m not trying to stop you having fun, and it doesn’t seem particularly harmful so go ahead 😁


  • Totally, I don’t want to get into the nuances of penis size preferences, as the vast majority of people are happy with any donger (barring medical conditions), but of course, as you’ve said, there are outliers.

    It just upsets me to watch men obsess about penis size, so I probably came across too strongly, sorry about that 😅

    I also have no problem with humour, I try to avoid it as I see it as body shaming, but I’m not gonna be a party pooper



  • This meme is just perpetuating two harmful ideas:

    1. Reinforcing the expectation that black men have huge dongers

    2. That donger size matters and is a measure of self worth

    You’ll notice that whilst point 2 effects all men, point 1 is more harmful to black men, as they hold their body to a higher unrealistic standard. Plus it’s part of the creepy fetishization of “exotic” people.

    Tying people disliking these concepts to them being “pale” is just kinda weird, dismissive, and frankly plain racist.

    I’m not personally offended by the post, and haven’t downvoted it, I just hate seeing the closed minded and unempathetic mindset that your comment demonstrates