Can we just agree that

YES, right extreme state of Israel = bad

NO, not the whole religion and all Jews are therefore bad (at least not more than other religions) ?

Extremely annoying that political criticism and religious hate always get mixed up (partly on purpose).

I don’t like murica government, doesn’t make me anti christian, I don’t like Iran government, doesn’t make me anti-muslim, I don’t like israel- government, doesn’t make me antisemitic.

Also: I don’t like how easy nonscientific believes such as religions can be used as tools to crowd control

Talk about ideas, deeds, actors and political regimes, not about people grouped by religions, ethnicity or looks and you have a much more productive discussion.

Apparently posting distrust in OPs honest intentions ist not only against rule one (uncivil) but also against rule two (repost) even though i never participated in any discussion about that topic ^^

Where is “there is a guy in the sky controlling humanity, judging whats good and whats Bad and decides who gets to eternal pleasure or eternal pain after death”?

Na klar, mir gehts grad ähnlich, aber ich versuche mir klar zu machen, dass auch wenn die Dinge gerade schwer sind, ich die schöne Zeit dennoch genossen habe und mit jedem auf und jedem ab persönlich wachse und und besser ausgestattet bin für alles was da noch kommen mag.

Es ist okay Gefühle zu haben, es ist okay, wenn es einem schlecht geht, es ist okay, wenn es einem mal alles zu viel ist und es ist okay sich auszusprechen und sich Hilfe zu suchen. Du bist nicht allein!

Fühl ich man :/

Hoffe du kommst aus dem Loch wieder raus, keine Talfahrt kann unendlich gehen, irgendwann geht es immer bergauf.

Viel kraft und Durchhaltevermögen mein zuhausi, egal wie düster es ist, es lohnt sich zu kämpfen

Liebe aus hessen

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Because investing is what smart people do - just give your money to some big Corporations who will use it to set the world on fire and destroy democracy, and get a little more Money in return - don’t worry about the burning autocratic world for you and your children, I didn’t and I came out fine you see.

Better learn that very young or it will make no sense at all.

1€ im Monat macht den braten auch nicht fett ;)

Im in dispo, but what does 1€ more or less every month matter now. And if every user thinks that way, it will matter to you. Will setup a dauerauftrag when I get home today

Was zum fick bin ich lesend

I didnt, i feel unfairly treated

In german its easier

“schreibschrift” (writefont) = handwritten joined letter where you seldom lift the pen

“Druckschrift” (printfont) = singular letters (handwritten and printed)

“Kallgrafie” (calligraphy)= particularly nice font (mostly reffering to handwritten joined letters

“Kursiv” (cursive) = angled petters like this (engl. Italic)

was done. He apologized mentioned he was drunk. I don’t buy it one bit. He has never acted like this.

This open relationship has left me drained mentally and emotionally and it wasn’t even my idea to begin with. I have filed for divorce but he keeps begging for reconciliation but I can’t.

Before anyone comments I know you told me so. Sigh.

Relevant Comments

Commenter 1: You said in your first post that you had a “don’t ask, don’t tell policy” and he switched it up… was there any other rules? Like ok you can have a fwb or one night stand? Because you were basically in a relationship with Evan…

I’m not trying to sound like an AH, but it is a good thing you guys divorce, because from how you wrote Evan isn’t the only one anymore shows how much you’re really not ready to settle down anymore and just want to do your own thing, which is fine, but at the same time, please be safe.

OOP: There were multitude of rules that kept getting changed to fit whatever conditions he wanted in the relationship. We kept having discussions over and over and when I asked if he wanted to close he said no.

Commenter 2: But was it said it’s only to be sex or you can have a significant other besides your spouse? It’s not right, but sex is one thing, having a full on partner that you confide in, have sex with and even go on vacations with is completely different IMO…

OOP: I was allowed emotional intimacy (dating) alongside sex . He doesn’t like the relationship aspect, he’s more of a casual one night stand guy. I cannot do that, I need to foster an intimate relationship with others and he knows that! I asked him weeks before about the vacation and he was “happy” for me. This isn’t our first time taking a trip but it’s the first out the country. He could’ve been transparent and communicated that he didn’t want me to go! There are many times he’s voiced his concerns and I listened. I followed the rules he just didn’t like the outcome.

OOP responds to a longer comment regarding the open marriage rules OOP’s husband has set up

OOP: After my first post we discussed the rules and I was allowed to have a full blown relationship. I was always allowed that’s our definition of emotional intimacy, a relationship. The rules have been modified many times. I didn’t care to update Reddit because I didn’t think it was anyone’s business. I have asked him countless of times if Evan was a bother to him, he said no and even went as far as saying he prefers when I’m with one person vs multiple which is strange since he gets with multiple people. If he wanted me to stop speaking with him he should’ve been transparent instead of passive aggressive. I told him the minute he is uncomfortable he should let me know! Even though he’s doing I still love him deeply, I like Evan but he could never compare to my husband.

OOP and her husband should seek couples counseling

OOP: No need for counseling since we are getting a divorce. I would never want to be married to someone who cannot communicate. There are many personal details I left out. Remember you don’t know me and my husband nor our dynamic just the UPDATE TO A POST! What he did by humiliating me and sabotaging every chance wasn’t right! Whether he was angry or not. Emotional manipulation is never okay. With that being said thank you for the response but this is my last one.

Commenter 3: Why get married to have an open marriage? No judgement, just curious.

OOP: You would have to ask him since he was the one that suggested it.

DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7

THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP

League - it doesnt run on Linux anymore since riot forced that stupid vanguard on us

Uff

For testing try the live USB sticks Just flash them to an empty stick with programs like etcher, then power dowb and select the stick in your bios (usually reachable by hammering f1, f2 or Del while starting

(Remember that performance will be much better when installing it for real compared tusing running it from a stick though)

Dual boot will work and is not that hard to setup, but you should back up all your data before trying it.

Also when dual booting to avoid duplicates etc I have all my documents and stuff on a USB stick, so I don’t have a version in my win and a version iny linux. Cloud works as well

Yes, ez one (if you have installed operating systems before and know how to paste an error passage into google ) -4hours and your done start to finish. (Given you have standard hardware and don’t want to set up something crazy like dual boot with raid and nas)

Moderate complexity if you have never done anything like that, plan 2-6 evenings to get it fully working with everything you need

Also: consider your scopes. For most cases Linux will just work, you just have to get used to some different interfaces.

BUT: some things will not run under linux no matter how hard you try --> google if stuff you can’t live without will work

(for me I still have a dual boot windows for playing league of legends and running my vive wireless adapter, as those will not run under Linux.

For games use protonDB

I may be oldschool, but for people not comfortable around terminals I would suggest Debian KDE as it never breaks and the transition from windows is easy. You can do everything from GUI (clicky button interfaces)

For the installation of steam you might need a terminal, but there are good guides online (and you really dont need to be a wizard for that) from where you can just copy paste (when searching just add your distro e.g. “install steam Debian”, and once you’ve got that running you can just run every game from within steam.

Since Steam has done a lot of work with proton, most games just run under Linux. In steam: Install–>play

For nearly all games not directly running, you can just force them to run with proton. It will say: “Game not compatible” in steam, you just click the gear icon on the right to open settings, go to “compatibilty” and tick “force use of compatibility layer” and select the newest proton from the drop down

The button where steam previously said “not compatible” magically turns into the blue “install” button we all know and love. And nearly all games run with only minor inconveniences (like showing keyboard hotkeys even when playing with a gamepad) or no issues at all.

You need to be aware that some games using kernel level anticheat (e.g. league of legends, valorant) can not and will never run on Linux, if the developers of the games don’t add the possibility.

EDIT: for programs not related to gaming its often easier to use an alternative, if the program is not available for Linux. Most times its also more privacy foccused, open source and free

Adobe light room --> darktable

Microsoft office --> libre office

Adobe Premiere pro --> davinci resolve/shotcut

Paint/Photoshop --> gimp/davinci/dark table

Edge --> firfox

Notepad --> Kate

Fraps/relive/shadowPlay --> OBS

Etc. Pp.

Czt if contwnt: I’m the guy who waited until his partner gave birth before telling her I knew the baby wasn’t mine. Here’s how my life is going! Aug 8, 2023

I keep getting dms asking me to update so here’s one. Been roughly 8 months. Check profile for original story.

No I don’t talk to Sarah. Screw Sarah. Haven’t seen her. Last I heard, she moved to 3 hours away with her mom to be closer to some family. I kept seeing her around town a lot so I’m beyond grateful she’s gone. She would attempt to have conversations with me sometimes in the first month after she gave birth but that soon stopped. As for Bryan, we text occasionally. And we did go out for that beer. He overall seems happy to be a father, but we don’t talk about Sarah. I don’t keep up much with him anyways. We’re both hardworking men with jobs, kids, and lives to live so it’s kinda hard to keep up. I don’t think they’re together at all but who knows.

Speaking of kids, the woman who was a single mom that I started seeing? We’re still together. Her kid is awesome and I love being her stepdad tbh. So a big middle finger to those who told me to stop talking to her or that it wasn’t gonna work. It may seem like we moved fast but, at this point, I don’t care. I’ve never loved anyone more. We communicate properly, hardly fight, just so much fun.

I initially was gonna cut all contact with her after falling off into a bad drinking habit but she really kept me grounded. I didn’t meet my stepdaughter for awhile, but when I did, I knew I couldn’t leave. Being apart of this little family has healed me in ways I literally can’t fathom.

And before anyone says I just used them to deal with the trauma of not having my own kid, that couldn’t be farther from the truth. I’m in therapy, I got my shit together, and most days I don’t even think about my ex. Hell, I even forgot about this damn account!

Words cannot describe how much my life has picked up. Thank you reddit strangers for being there in the darkest time in my life. Honestly it helped. Hoping to propose to my girlfriend sometime in the future.

That’s it! Bye.

THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP

DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP’s OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7

Ah thanks, its hidden by default in my app so I rarley look at those. MB

Forgive me my unknowing, what does ydi stand for?