how do I do that? its not the first time I’ve been told to forget about casual sex, or sex in general, but when I try the thoughts just pop out more. “Huh (insert female classmate) looks really nice in those shorts” or randomly I’ll be pulled into a fantasy about me boning a female classmate who I don’t even know the name of while studying for a quiz. it just happens with no reason. How do you do it?

shes a classmate not my girlfriend, and I know about her I just don’t know if her family is poor or not or if they are struggling.