Always these lickspittles with their rushed compliance before anything is even “ordered”

Because we have to acknowledge the systemic privilege of white people. I’m so very white. I have my problems and my concerns, but none of them are for my looks. Black people do not have that luxury.

Yeah it’s not about that. It’s about culture, history, systemic racism, discrimination, found family, community…

This “I don’t see colour” argument is an old blind argument that ignores all of the above.

I wish I could write more, but I’m out of spoons myself. But here’s something many people learn the hard way: you gotta go find therapy before you “need it”, when you really need it, you might not have the strength to go look for it. Good luck

I never said that. You know that your comment is in bad faith. If you don’t tell people your old name then they cannot have any comments about it

that sounds extremely funny! i find it pretty tough making imperfect choices in BG3, my gamer brain wants to play it “correctly”, it’s easier at the real table with dnd

imho, the funniest/most difficult choices are not in character creation, but in roleplaying. make stupid choices outside combat. steal everything. steal nothing. murder everyone. murder as few as possible. talk to nobody. always go in disguise. don’t recruit anyone to your party. etc etc

I learned late in life, that it’s okay to just not look some days. i have this mirror cabinet in my bathroom. so some days, I just open it and look into the cabinet instead of my face.

ja genau. meine Ärztin hat es versucht, aber sie will sich natürlich nicht zu weit aus dem Fenster lehnen. Ich könnte vermutlich ein Privat-Rezept bekommen. Und die Kosten gehen einigermaßen wenn es nur um eine Packung geht. Ich glaube das sind so 40-60€ oder so. aber auf lange Sicht geht das nicht. Morgen ist mein Termin endlich und ich kann es hoffentlich klären…

dude, calm down. maybe it’s you? I changed my name while staying in the same job. 400 people had to learn my new name. i work in a school, so i told all the kids and the teachers. i go to a dance party every week, i’ve known the people there for years. one day i was like “hey this is my name now”. i didn’t cut ties with a single person and nobody has ever attacked me. maybe you’re just a terrible person?

As a guy who just changed his name: this last sentence just is unnecessary.

There’s more than one. I saw one of them lately, she’s doing good. We talked and hugged. That felt good, a little closure.

Mostly I don’t know since I am so bad with people and they stay the fuck away from me which, good for them.

There’s some I really grieve for. The things I couldn’t do. The things I was too bad at.

I hope all of them are better than I am.

They are probably underage. This is creepy af

Yeah I’m with you. This is crossing a line for me too

You don’t hate yourself. You clearly can voice that you don’t like the feelings you get out of these interactions. You even wrote it down. So you can take it now to them. Tell them in basically the same words as you used here, that it makes you feel like that and you wanted to know if they can understand why you feel like that. Good luck.

Holy shit today was the worst day for me, too. I constantly changed rooms forgetting why I went there. All the time.

" it pains me to see how, after murdering most of my family in the Holocaust, you empty the word antisemitism of meaning to silence critics of Israel’s occupation in the West Bank (the topic of our film) and legitimize violence against Palestinians"

That’s from the ISRAELI maker of the movie. Who feels unsafe in Germany. But his movie documenting the real going-ons is antisemitism? Fuck off, Germany. Sincerely, a German.

I thought this was just click bait. But some of the answers are actually interesting (and scary in that way) how people can “rationally” explain how they fell for the lies of trump (“he cares about Muslims”, “he is a political outsider”, “he gets things done”…)

Very well written and put together. Thanks! None of this is new. But I am still saving your comment as bookmark, because it’s so concise.

Wie wäre es wenn Menschen Geld spenden? Dann können wir weiter Geld geben dafür dass Menschen getötet werden und Geld dafür geben dass sie mit Lebensmitteln versorgt werden. Und die Militär-Maschine zieht an beiden Seiten Geld ein