Seriously. It’s come down to not giving a fuck, much like the others have said. We have faked for so long to protect ourselves. We have a right to be tired. That’s not a free pass to go out and be mean, that’s what NT’s might think that means. I know for us to get it, we have to tell ourselves extremes. Our internal extremes are their “normals”. Which is why it’s so hard for us to accept or understand their help.