Both anxiety and loneliness are basically every holiday that involves big family gathering. It was so stressful I had some breakdowns even. Usually I use every excuse I can to avoid that. All I want is some quite time at home, with the few people that I truly love.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you buy real Christmas trees or put up artificial ones?
2·1 month agoI used to have a pine sapling that I grow in a pot, and always used it as a Christmas tree in winter. But one year it died. I tried to grow another after that, but failed twice. Now my confidence of keeping a sapling alive is all gone. Maybe I should make a cardboard one this year. Or maybe just use a different plant that’s not a pine, fir or yew.
Now the only place to search for funny snowman is online…
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is there a uBlock Origin filter or extension for LLM slop in search results
5·1 month agoThank you very much!
Lots of Coffee, lots of Black Tea.
I’m grateful for GoG’s manual testing process. But the forums often full of users blaming GoG for treating them as second class citizens for always late at push out updates, without seeing their efforts. Sometimes it’s indeed several months later than Steam, like Manor Lords. Sometimes developers do seems to abandon their GoG version altogether, like Hellish Quart. It sometimes feels like a vicious cycle to push users away.
I prefer GoG’s UI too, It’s simpler and easier to navigate. Steam’s main page has become more confusing over the years. It’s another reason for me to prefer buying from GoG. The same goes for Steam’s client, it’s so full of stuff. Sometimes it feels like you have to open a monster to just play a casual game, it somewhat put off your desire to play that mini casual game.
From both, but I prefer GoG. I bought everything I want to keep there. So I can store the installers, and won’t have to redownload each time I install on a new system. But Steam has a smoother Linux experience.
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Casual Conversation@piefed.social•I speak Cantonese at home, but sometimes I just wanna like use English to artificially create "distance", to like make me feel more in control, since I'd be in a realm of language I have more mastery.
2·1 month agoThat’s interesting, because I do that too. Native language for family use, “common tongue” for outsiders and strangers, English when angry or want to be serious. They do feel like three stages of distance. Also, each language has slightly different preferences with slightly different ways of thinking, which leads to you often think different things in different languages. But more often than not, they just end up in a big muddle.

Saw another one of these in a Japanese Program. It does seem like they have these sings everywhere!
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What all would you pack into a mini portable first aid kit?
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Wahhh!
Indeed! Glad to be not on their menu, so can safely enjoy their majesty.
That’s an interesting read, never knew such behaviour has a name! Should have thought others always knew they are the big bad birds. ;)
I went back to blacksmithforums.com just now, to my surprise, they changed their software. Now I can’t find all the posts that I saved about historical researches…
There are still quite many game developers’ forums, but what bothers me a little bit is that sometimes the long living ones periodically lost their past.
I often saw videos of Ravens harass Owls during the day, and occasionally Owls ambush Ravens during the night. Are they saw each other annoying neighbours?
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Android@lemdro.id•Does anyone here use a Sony Xperia 10 VII? Seems like the only viable option with a headphone jack nowadays besides Motorola and their predatory update policiesEnglish
2·2 months agoThe microSD card is for all the videos and lossless CDs, they are huge… For desktop syncing, I use self-hosted Syncthing too, somehow I didn’t use it for my phone…
Went back to parents’ place to meet all of their cats. They rescued another kitten from near death, that was a month ago. Now she’s partying with the rest of the gang!
No, I chose a public server with decent connection speed. I was lazy. 👻









I had dumplings and a pear, which was not my usual breakfast. Glad to see another pear!