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Cake day: March 28th, 2024

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  • It’s really exhausting. OCD, ADHD, NPD, BPD, Bipolar disorder, all these commonly armchair-diagnosed disorders have lost so much meaning due to inappropriate use. I was recently accused of gaslighting because I didn’t recall what someone was criticizing me for, so I said as much and asked for examples. Big gaslighter here, everyone.



  • Ugh, yes. I’m going through a rough relationship patch where we’ve separated to work on ourselves and the relationship.

    My natural inclination is to pursue and put in effort until I drop, but the smart move is almost always to wait. For days, even weeks. There have been a few instances where I felt like my last move was an eternity ago. Nope, just two days. Not even full days. Torture!















  • It could be ADHD too. It, other neurodevelopmental disorders, and affective disorders can affect how one feels about just about anything.

    I have ADHD and I derive nearly no pleasure from “a job well done” unless the outcome is directly and fairly immediately beneficial.

    Project completed at work? At most I’ll be relieved it’s done unless it shows off my skills, which I like - dopamine!

    Baked a cake? For myself, fuck yeah - dopamine! For someone else and I don’t get any? The forecast shows a light chance of a low pressure dopamine system entering the region this afternoon, depending on how much I like the person.