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Who I want to fuck doesn’t necessarily overlap with who I want to read stories about. I’m happy to read about or even watch sex acts I’d never want to actually participate in.
Long fiber sphagnum moss wicking water up from the substrate, mostly. I’ve heard that lava rock can be porous enough to stay moist on its own but it doesn’t work for me in my dry climate.
atomicorange@lemmy.worldto
Dull Men's Club@lemmy.world•I want to face my fear of driving. Looking for kindness and advice, thank you. (Long)
4·2 天前I finally got my license at 27. I HATED driving, found it difficult to multitask and just the constant adrenaline made me miserable.
I got over it because I had to after moving too far away from work to continue commuting by bike. At first I stuck to driving short, known routes. It eventually becomes muscle memory and the anxiety will lessen. I just wanted to let you know you can do it. It will suck but you’ll get there.
atomicorange@lemmy.worldto
Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•Chocolate and fruit do NOT go togetherEnglish
13·2 天前Trauma
atomicorange@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•Flu is surging nationwide, and doctors say we're nowhere near the peak
1·2 天前It had multiple nicknames, superflu was the main one.
Thanks, felt like I was taking crazy pills. Leaves of three, let it be!
atomicorange@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•Flu is surging nationwide, and doctors say we're nowhere near the peak
81·2 天前Can we not name this after the disease that kills 99% of humans in a Stephen King novel please? It feels like asking for trouble.
Glad you made it ❤️
Climate change is causing Christmas creep? It’s worse than we thought!!
Update! Look what I found this morning!

Thank you! I spent an hour jamming sphagnum moss one strand at a time into the substrate like a crazy person 😅
Peat and perlite mostly, I use this mix from Amazon topped with live sphagnum (and some star moss hitchikers)
atomicorange@lemmy.worldto
Leopards Ate My Face@lemmy.world•Trump supporter apologizes for not heeding the warnings, still a RepublicanEnglish
13·6 天前Sowwy we voted for fascism guys :(( still hate u tho 🤪
So cool!!













I’m also not watching or reading for porn, I’m there for the story. It’s just that sometimes, sex IS the story. Not just romance, but horror, drama, comedy. A well written story can have sex scenes that are about developing love, character growth, interpersonal conflict, trauma, etc. It doesn’t have to be sexy to be a good sex scene. I think that’s actually a lot of the appeal of lesbian yaoi - those sex scenes are more likely to be about WHY the characters are using their dicks than HOW they’re using them.
Not to discount how good lesbian yaoi sex scenes are, thank you ladies for your tireless efforts in making the boys kiss.
How do you know if it’s lesbian yaoi? If a lesbian gives you yaoi, that’s how you know I guess. She will say, “please look at this drawing of Jesus making out with Judas and let me and my girlfriend know what you think” or something like that.