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Cake day: July 31st, 2025

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  • That sounds nice overall. I think, in some cases, being a late bloomer at this may be a good thing. You may get to skip immature and inappropriate behavior from people who don’t know any better since they’re barely more mature than children. On the other half, dating in your teenage years can be intense and exciting, even when it looks corny and immature from an adult perspective. And that early experience can be valuable for not making “beginner mistakes” later. But I guess since it’s your first time now, it is intense and exciting nonetheless?

    Anyways, I’m 29m now, and had my first relationship at age 15. She was in my class. The tension and butterflies were insane, a lot of passion in a way, even though we were just texting at first. When we took it to real life, it was a beautiful thing for a while. I eventually messed it up and my world shattered. But life went on and so many more wonderful, crazy and sad stories followed.

    I have had 7 relationships total as of today, all committed and rather long. Almost married the last one. I think I learned so much about what makes and breaks a relarionship and about human beings in general and I feel confident I’ll know what I want and what to do in the future. On the other hand, I wish I could have romantic emotions as pure and intense as back in the days. A part of it is just the novelty and not yet having been scarred by life, I guess. But then again, thats just the “honeymoon part”. Real love comes after that and goes much deeper.






  • Jo das ist eine valide Meinung, danke dafür.

    Ich bin mir persönlich nicht sicher, wie ich den Beschluss finde, weil man da denke ich recht komplex Dinge gegeneinander abwägen muss, und ich die faktischen Details nicht gut genug kenne. Zum Beispiel, wie groß ist die Gefahr der Aufweichendung von Standards konkret ist bzw wie viel die EuGh-Prüfung da verbessern könnte, und welche positiven und negativen Auswirkungen (Stichwort Proteste der Landwirtschaft in Frankreich) man erwarten kann. Auch, wie wichtig das jetzt für die EU gewesen wäre. Und das Risiko, dass die Mercosur-Staaten es nun echt noch platzen lassen.

    Naja, wenn ich Zeit finde, recherchiere ich mal in Tiefe.












  • Tradition is brainwashing younger people that they should keep doing what you did even after you’re gone.

    Not that every tradition is bad, or that everything should be done differently. Humans learn from the previous generations, that’s a fundamental of our existence. But the way some traditions are imposed onto the young despite all issues with them sucks. It’s about balance and not being dogmatic, I guess.