Sounds like we might be talking past one another 😅

The rules of the community are that this is a women-only community, but you said:

the mandatory requirement to say all men are excluded in every post title

I was only clarifying that there is no rule that every post must include language in the post title saying all men are excluded …

I’m lazy and was just trying to set up the tool locally, and I was hoping to point to a remote instance like lazysoci.al but I see it depends on a database 🤔 This might not work as I was hoping …

EDIT: I see, the voting information comes from having a Lemmy instance, federating to the instance is what allows the admin to see the vote information (who voted for what, etc.)

awesome, thanks so much!

I was hoping it might be open source so I can run it from my local …

Might I suggest adding a .nvmrc or using volta pin to pin the node version, I had to infer the node version is v24 based on the Dockerfile 😅

don’t forget: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/14544266

so you’re saying you picked a transphobic username as a cis man, then kept it when you transitioned less than a year ago?

And no, I make a terrible ally 😉

I was wondering, is your tool open source?

I feel like an average guy and I met my wife on a dating app

trans women don’t usually call themselves “an average guy”, it shows you identify as a “guy” and not a gal, for example.

Are you saying you’re a trans woman?

Thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment. Hope you understand 💛

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but the mandatory requirement to say all men are excluded in every post title makes this space reek of the ways TERFs isolate and control women.

It’s not mandatory, LadyButteryfly is just doing that on some of her posts because so many men comment on posts in this community, which then takes up a lot of time and effort to remove.

The motivation to put the rule in the title of the post is because so many men don’t read the rules or notice what community they’re in before posting, this helps them be aware and reduces the workload of the moderators.

I hear you on how it can look or seem TERFy, but I think this might just be a misunderstanding, we are explicitly trans inclusive.

thanks for your contribution, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post. Hope you understand 💛

I would name my child Fatalitee.

thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post. Hope you understand 🧡

I don’t know that I would consider this high quality but I have found some scents from Lush that I really like.

I’ve enjoyed the MAC cosmetics I’ve tried, e.g. tinted lip balm.

For mascara “Better Than Sex” from Too Faced is pretty popular and I’ve enjoyed it myself, but I have been using up some Mineral Fusion mascara forever.

As an aside, I never end up buying mascara for myself because my partner always buys too many to try and gives me their rejects, and I tend to be so economical that even once the mascara dries out, I keep rehydrating it with sterile saline and so a single tube lasts me forever 😅

So admittedly my makeup needs are pretty minimal - I would actually love to have more time to do makeup for fun, to explore new looks and refine existing ones and so on.

Looking forward to this week being over 😄

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way too many rainbow bangles to match your trainers?

thank you! 🤍

I think a suggestion mentioned in Bullshit Jobs by David Graeber was to use a terminal based browser like lynx and spend your time on the web, e.g. reading and editing wikipedia articles. Most passers-by won’t recognize the text on the screen as a browser and will think you’re working.