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gandalf_der_12tetoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•Going braless in Ohio could land women in jail under anti-drag bill
1·10 hours agothis is fucked up shit you have going on in your country (not your fault) but also this is not really historically exceptional. laws like these have existed throughout history. just to give a few examples, people in the west today like to complain about how oppressive the taliban are for making women wear hijabs but in europe 200 years ago it was also customary for women to wear some garment around their hair as to not show the hair in public.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Genetics is important because it's the conserved quantity of biology
1·11 hours agoyeah noether’s theorem isn’t perfect because it only discusses continuous symmetries. nevertheless, it still applies here.
the symmetries that are associated with the genome are rather broad, actually. for example, if a living organism moves both in time and in space, the genome stays the same, while the proteins in the body might change due to different gene expression (Regulation of gene expression). and therefore the metabolites produced change as well.
everybody likes girls, they’re the best
most people either want to be a woman or be with a woman, for many it’s both
wtf is up with china?
linux command line tool to download youtube and a lot of other videos
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NASA's Perseverance Mars Rover@lemmy.world•Long drive on April 19, 2026 (Sol 1835)English
7·13 hours agoone day

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Fediverse@lemmy.world•The Small Website Discoverability CrisisEnglish
2·16 hours agoi mean you can already put a link to your blog in your user profile on lemmy. in fact many people do it. (i don’t do it myself because i don’t have a good website to link to)
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collapse@lemmy.zip•Weimar Republic economy gets Weimar Republic results
87·23 hours agoWe need free healthcare. This obviously includes free food because you can’t stay healthy if you don’t eat.
“Fascism” really just means that people are unhappy with the current situation and want change. And that’s ok, understandable even. We need to make sure to stir the movement in a direction that benefits people, instead of making the situation worse.
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Fediverse@lemmy.world•The Small Website Discoverability CrisisEnglish
1·23 hours agoyeah, exactly. for example, in the sidebar (community description) of lemmy communities.
or in your personal profile description
well the only land not taken is the tropical rainforest, the arctic, the high mountains, and the deserts

people keep talking about “human rights”, but what about human lefts?
that’s surprisingly mature of you to say. yeah, i get your feelings, as i have them too
idk where to find somebody who’s willing to stay.
“don’t cry” is repressive behavior, tears wash you clean, the best thing you can do if somebody cries is let them cry. not interfering is the way to go.
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Fediverse@lemmy.world•The Small Website Discoverability CrisisEnglish
5·1 day agoyeah making content is a lot of work. i can’t blame them.
if you have more questions feel free to ask
as to what you should do, well, this really really really depends a lot on context that is not written in your post so i can only guess here.
basically, you should make a plan of where you intend to go in the next few years, and check whether that’s compatible with what she wants. like, if you both just so randomly happen to want to live in austin and study sea biology then maybe moving together would make sense. if you already know you’re going to work abroad while she hates travelling, well i guess there’s no chance to stay together.
maybe ask her about her interests and where she wants to go, and check whether that’s something that you can relate to and whether it makes sense to walk some path together.
secondly i relate to your post a lot. i had an autistic gf too some years ago and some things that you write really remember me of back then. like the
The first week felt unreal. She asked for me to sleep in her room every night, wanted tons of cuddles and even wanted to try kissing- something she said she’d never do. Shes was also researching apartments every day and always talking about wanting to move out as soon as possible.
i think she’s never made these experiences with anybody who she found even remotely relatable to so when you meet somebody for the first time that you can relate to, things happen very quickly. i think it’s important for young people to experiment around but also give her space to explore herself and her environment without forcing her to be “consistent” - i.e. don’t expect a fixed relationship just because somebody wants to explore relationships with other people for a bit.
First of all i think people should get used to writing where they live in the post because whether you believe it or not, it 100% does make a lot lot lot of difference whether you’re living in the US, in brazil, in china or australia because people are different everywhere and there are going to be differences in how things work.
we need
- links from fediverse instances to other fediverse instances
- maybe tools like https://fediversemap.com/ to find fediverse instances that are physically close to you, to connect to people irl and organize irl events
- prefer to post content on already existing instances so you get better exposure














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